WEDDINGS: Be Submissive

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Editor-in-Chief and Publisher: Oudney Patsika

On March 26, 2014

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Jude walked into my office looking like a man who had not had a decent sleep in weeks and his story moved me to tears ‘I was referred to your office by a friend because I was already contemplating suicide. I used to be a top management staff of a multinational and an associate pastor in my church but everything went down the drain and now I am left with nothing’ I was doing extremely well until my company was bought over by a new company and they insisted on changing the entire management team which I didn’t have a problem with but the devastating thing was the way we were disgraced out of a company I labored so much to build with my colleagues’

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‘My wife was the happiest woman while I worked because I ensured my family visited 4 different countries every year and she had everything she wanted but the moment I lost my job all that changed as I could no longer cope with the standard of living I had set for the family and all my effort to get a new job has so far proved abortive so my wife became the bread winner and i must tell you that it would have been better for me to have died than be subjected to the inhuman treatment I receive from my wife’.

‘I had literately become the housewife because she gives the instructions and my esteem is gone because of the level of insult I have had to put up with her. From calling me a jobless man to giving a litany of woes each time she had to give money.
The situation has gotten worse that she has refused us having sex in the last 15months claiming that was my punishment for not having a job. In her words ‘A man who can’t provide should not be having sex’
‘Sir I have really suffered and this has driven me into drinking myself to stupor and making out with call girls. I can’t really explain how I got to this level but I am in deep trouble at the moment, I have tried to end it all several times but can’t explain the force that keeps holding me back. Please sir I need your help’ (he broke down and started sobbing profusely’

I was moved to tears as I looked at a man who has almost lost his manhood because it was so clear that his self esteem was gone and I did try my best to show him what to do and point him in the right direction.

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