Now we know that the one thing men cannot live without apart from money is sex. In this forum I really don't care where anyone is from or what religion you belong to, I will be as raw and honest as possible.
Check Part 1 of the article here: What Men Really Want From Their Wives (Part 2) – Stella Damasus AboderinBut What Do Men Really Want?
1. They want to feel like they are in control of things which is not bad because they are the head.
2. They want to feel loved, and like it or not they are our first babies who desire words of affirmation no matter how macho they seem.
3. They want to feel wanted all the time. It gives them the confidence that all men crave for.
4. They want to know you are still sexually attracted to them.
5. They don't want you to make it obvious that you are matter even if you are.
6. They like their space and being alone sometimes.
7. They don't want to come home to a fat mama who is the opposite of the sexy curvy woman he fell in love with, because she let herself go after they got married.
8. She is married now, who else does she have to impress? Wrong! Men are first of all moved by what they see before anything else. So when they can't see that anymore or at least an effort to getting back that body that turned them on, they'll probably lose interest in you and find it someone else.
9. They don't want to come and hug you after work with you are smelling of onions and oil. At least take a shower before he gets there, or if there is no time spray perfume.
10. They want to come home to a nice smelling neat and tidy home.
11. They want to walk into the bedroom with the bed all made up and clothes arranged. Maybe a small note on his pillow saying I love you and I am glad you are home, that definitely puts an automatic smile on his face even if for three seconds, it keeps him interested in you.
12. They want you to be a good listener, not just a talker.
13. They want to know that you believe in them and you are proud of them.
14. They want to know that no matter what you will have their back and support them, then ask questions later.
15. They just want to see that you are making an effort because no human being should expect you to be perfect.
They don't want another mother but they want you to take care of them the way you would your kids.
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| Stella Damasus, Nigerian actor and film producer, speaks at an event launching the gender-based sexual violence exhibition "Wounded to Death" in the World Bank Headquarters' Preston Auditorium on May 22, 2014 in Washington, DC. AFP PHOTO/Mandel NGAN (Photo credit should read MANDEL NGAN/AFP via Getty Images) |
There are so many things I can add and you will not stop reading so let me end this by saying: if you do not try to do at least 60 percent of this regularly, trust me a younger version of you will cross his path and that is exactly how the enemy works. When that younger and more energetic version of you catches his eye, your matter will quietly end.
This girl will rock his world so bad that coming home to you will become a chore. These girls can give him all these things and even more than men find it so difficult to resist. All the money that was supposed to go to you and your children will find their way to her pocket. They can get anything they want from your man because they know the secret to getting and keeping him.
I know that this article will cause a lot of controversial hula boo, but it is fine because in life people don't like to hear the truth. This might also be an opportunity for people to make silly comments but the truth is I am loving it all. I finally have the attention of people who will ordinarily not want to listen to me or watch me. God will bless your homes and give you the wisdom you need to keep it together.
Think about this objectively, try out what you agree with and discard what you don't. Leave the messenger out of it for a change and see the bigger picture ahead.
Take care of yourselves and remember that I love you all.
Original article by: Stella Damasus Aboderin
Adopted and edited by:
Tapiwa Zuze – www.tapiwazuze.com
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| Stella Damasus, Nigerian actor and film producer, speaks at an event launching the gender-based sexual violence exhibition "Wounded to Death" in the World Bank Headquarters' Preston Auditorium on May 22, 2014 in Washington, DC. AFP PHOTO/Mandel NGAN (Photo credit should read MANDEL NGAN/AFP via Getty Images) |
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