Ladies Only - Signs you're dating a player

He's charming and sweet, you like to show him off to your friends because he's a perfect gentleman and you want everyone to know. But how can you be so sure he's not just acting out a role, and doing the exact things you want?

 Ladies Only - Signs you're dating a player

He's charming and sweet, you like to show him off to your friends because he's a perfect gentleman and you want everyone to know.

But how can you be so sure he's not just acting out a role, and doing the exact things you want?

What if he has some other ladies he's also charming? How can you tell you're the only one or 'just one of the ones?'

1. He asks for sex on the first date: Players know that modern girls are fickle. Whether they put value on the immediate one night stand is immaterial — they know they have to push the interaction as far as possible to get the girl invested and maximize the chance she will return.
2. He's evasive or mysterious about personal things: You're unlikely to hear about a player's dreams, aspirations, insecurities, etc. Good players don't want to tell you anything that could be used against them, and really, what’s the use of opening up to someone you don't view as a potential partner?
3. He refuses to meet your friends: A man who delights in the chase knows that a girl's friends are never his allies. At best they are neutral observers, most often they are saboteurs and haters. After all, why should their friend enjoy some fun with a mysterious stud if they're not getting any attention themselves?
4. He's reluctant to spend money on you: Everybody knows the player's go-to maneuver is the expensive dinner first date. Players flip the script because they know there's no upside to trying to buy a girl's attraction. If he suggests you split a bag of skittles for dinner, you’re staring down sexual checkmate.
5. He won't see you more than twice a week: A player's time is valuable, whether it's being used for gaming other girls, making money, or enjoying leisure time. As part of the harem, you're not going to get more than the occasional bone thrown your way.
6. He doesn't want to see you on weekends: The weekend is a time for precious rejuvenation and rebirth. For the full-time 24/7 players, this is when they're beating the bushes for new prospects. For the introverted players, it’s the time when they unwind solo and prepare for another week in the game.
7. All of your dates involve alcohol: The fact is, most players want to avoid getting a girl sloppy drunk. However, they also know that sharing just drink or two will make it easier to get sex somewhere along the line.

Bukky Sanni is an Associate Content at Pulse. A writer, an ardent reader and a relationship expert, Sanni loves music and chocolates!

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