From Selling Ice to Selling Drama? The Rise, Crisis, and Plea for Empathy for the Nyathi Family
Subject: Gilbert (21) & Joyce (20) | Status: Under Public Scrutiny
Humility, sympathy, and faith in God once summed up the fairytale ascent of Gilbert Nyamanhindi and his wife Joyce Manyara, affectionately known as the Nyathi Family. Their story was a refreshing script of true love born out of sacrifice in rural Nyazura and cemented on the shores of South Africa.
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| From a humble shack to brand ambassadors: The Nyathi Family faces their biggest test yet. |
However, late 2025 has brought a storm that threatens to capsize this meticulously built brand. Explosive leaked audios suggest Mai Nyathi regrets their newfound wealth, stating "life was better in the shack." Yet, amidst the judgment, a call for empathy is rising. Are we witnessing the tragic unraveling of a young marriage, or a masterclass in marketing? And more importantly, have we forgotten they are just kids?
The Roots: Nyazura to Mpumalanga
Their love story is hard to come by in their generation. Gilbert narrated how they met: "I first spotted my wife at a borehole, where she was plaiting a relative back in the rural areas... I later devised a plan to win her heart."
They became lovers while still school kids in Nyazura. When Gilbert moved to South Africa to work in construction, Joyce followed him, and they began their life together in modest circumstances.
Before the fame, survival was the priority. "We used to sell ice to motorists along the busy highway," Joyce revealed. Despite the hardship, they claim they never fought like other couples. "We always laugh when we reflect on the challenges we once faced."
Their breakthrough came from a risk. "When we bought our iPhone, it was a huge gamble," Joyce admitted. Moving from a low-memory Samsung to an iPhone allowed them to produce high-quality skits from their shack, capturing the hearts of Zimbabweans with their authenticity and simplicity.
The Unraveling: Leaks & Allegations
In mid-December 2025, leaked voice notes attributed to Mai Nyathi surfaced. In them, she emotionally expressed that "life was better in the shack (mukuku)," implying that money and fame had brought misery and toxicity into their once-happy union.
Another audio featured discussions about sharing property, fueling rumors that the couple was heading for a permanent separation or divorce. This contrast to their public image of "true love" shocked their 2 million followers.
Adding fuel to the fire, a woman on the Kumusha Podcast claimed to be Gilbert’s secret lover. Gilbert vehemently denied this, crying on TikTok and kneeling to ask his wife for forgiveness, blaming "enemies" and "lies."
Poverty to Prosperity Shock
The years experienced in poverty have a massive bearing on their current growth and mistakes.
Going from selling ice in a shack to earning US$25,000 a month is a traumatic shift. It is a "shock" to the system. When you have never had anything, and suddenly you have everything, you make mistakes.
You buy the big car to prove you've "made it." You overcompensate. You become defensive. This isn't malice; it's a reaction to a life that flipped upside down overnight.
Psychologically, the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain responsible for decision-making—doesn't fully develop until 25. Gilbert (21) and Joyce (20) are literally still developing. To expect the emotional wisdom of a 40-year-old from a 21-year-old simply because they are famous is unfair.
Navigating Marriage in a Fishbowl
Marriage is difficult even for mature adults. For two people barely out of their teens, who are also business partners, parents to three children, and public figures, the pressure is unimaginable.
They are trying to figure out how to be a husband and a wife while the whole world watches. The "leaked audios" about property sharing likely reflect the impulsive, emotional venting of a young person overwhelmed by a fight, not necessarily a calculated legal move.
At 20 and 21, you are highly susceptible to outside voices. Friends, family, and "fans" all have opinions. Navigating these influences without turning against each other takes maturity that usually comes with age. They are learning this lesson the hard way, in public.
A Call for Grace
Even the critics are pausing to reflect on the impact of their words.
In a moment of profound realization, socialite Royal Mint issued a sincere apology for a previous post that inadvertently fueled the attacks on Gilbert Nyathi. The statement is a sobering reminder of the reality on the ground:
"I want to sincerely apologize... It was never my intention to trigger people into digging up or sharing evidence... I now realize that the way it was posted caused more harm than good."
"We are dealing with a very young and immature boy who rushed into adulthood and family responsibilities... The weight of public pressure, judgment, and constant attacks can push someone into doing something irreversible."
As Royal Mint wisely put it: "Accountability is important, but so is humanity." Let’s stop the pile-on and handle this with maturity.
Instead of cheering for their downfall or dissecting every audio leak, let us look at them with the empathy reserved for our own younger selves. They are maneuvering poverty, prosperity, and marriage all at once. Let us give them the grace to grow.
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