The Sexual Awakening Strategy: Understanding the Force of God-Given Desire
The Least Understood Force. Between Hollywood, break rooms, and bedrooms, sex is the most discussed issue known to man—yet remains the least understood. In Part 1 of this series, we examine the mechanics of the sex drive: find out what it is, why we have it, and how to experience God’s best.
| Vital Insight: God is the creator of sex and our sex drives. It is a natural, built-in physical desire. |
The Natural Drive
Like clockwork, there comes a time when every person experiences their sexual awakening. It affects every fiber of your being—spirit, soul, flesh, and even financial status.
Not a Sinful Force
Our sex drive is neither dirty nor shameful; it is a God-given instinct designed for both procreation and fulfillment.
Mechanics of Arousal
To stimulate sexual desire, the flesh is aroused through a strategic combination of senses:
Touching & Tasting
From gentle caresses to the "sweetness of a kiss" (Song of Solomon 1:2), these are powerful physical igniters.
Smelling & Hearing
Aromas and romantic poetry/music have been used since time immemorial to inflame desire.
Seeing
The visual element is primary, especially for males, often leading to "love at first sight."
The Reality of "One Flesh"
Contrary to popular belief, a flesh tie is established during intercourse regardless of the relationship status.
1 Corinthians 6:16
"When a man joins himself to a prostitute, HE BECOMES ONE BODY WITH HER."
This tie is magnified through the transmission of diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and the emotional difficulty of severing a connection.
The Chemical Reaction
Mixing your soul (will, feelings, intellect, emotions, memory) with sex creates a permanent shift:
| Intellect | Your ability to reason is altered; you risk everything for moments of pleasure. |
| Memory | Each encounter is hermetically sealed, often leading to destructive comparisons later. |
| Emotions | Sex triggers "after-sex infatuation," creating false senses of true love. |
Handling the Craving
You cannot "pray away" the craving; it is a biological reality. The key is knowing how to handle it to avoid the Sexual Danger Zone.
Source: Gillis Triplett | Relationship Strategy
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