Wednesday, 27 August 2014

Questions to Ask Before You Say “I Do”: Do they know how to communicate?

Questions to Ask Before You Say “I Do”: Do they know how to communicate?  
Questions to Ask Before You Say “I Do”: Do they know how to communicate?
 Communication is essential to build new intimacy when infatuation fades (which it will). If you marry someone who is fearful of communication or unskilled at communication, your marriage will fall into an intimacy rut. Joshua Harris writes, “You can’t love what you don’t know. You can’t be truly loved if you’re not truly known. And the only way to know and be known by another person is to communicate—openly, honestly, sincerely, humbly.” Women, however much your boyfriend talks to you, imagine marriage will have 25% less talk. (I’m not suggesting it should be that way, just that it often is.) Will that be enough? If he’s already borderline in this area, you’re likely to become very frustrated after marriage.



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