Sunday, 10 June 2018

The Marriage Tonic - The 10 Secrets To Every Marriage Every Couple Must Know!

Secret 1: Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2: Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married, stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Is he/she repented and born again in Christ? He who is in Christ is a new creature, behold, old things have passed away, all things are become new. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3: Every marriage has its own challenges.
Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every successful marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of difficulty. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4: Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else's. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stress, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.
The Marriage Tonic - The 10 Secrets To Every Marriage Every Couple Must Know!
Secret 5: To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage.

Some enemies of marriage are:
- Immaturity
- Prayerlessness
- Unforgiveness
- Third party influence
- Stinginess
- Stubbornness
- Lack of love
- Rudeness
- Laziness
- Disrespect
- Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6: There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances.

Secret 7: You cannot find a perfect person to get married to. You can only find a person in the form of raw material in order for you to mould the person into your desirable shape. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

Secret 8: Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful and be patient otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9: Marriage is not a contract. It is a covenant. It needs total commitment. Christ is the glue that sticks a couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10: Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

May God prosper you in your marriage.


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